Questions!!

February 24th, 2008 by joceyong

Hmm… I need to poll an audience. I heard from my friend’s plight and wanted to share. She recently attended her close friend’s wedding. She is asked to help her out for the wedding to do ushering job. Neither her friend and the family members give ang pow to her or even a small gift for appreciation.What i heard from her is everybody helping the couple didn’t receive anything at all.

My friend need to take leave from her job to help her friend. To doll herself up to look presentable to her friend’s guests and go early to the hotel to help too.

I feel that her friend is too much. Like making full use of my friend. My friend still need to give ang pow for the dinner too ok some more close friend, she gave her more than market rate. It’s not tat the couple is poor. wedding is in 4 star hotel some more. Even a 2 dollar ang pow can’t afford?

I told her to stay away from her friend. Is her friend too much? Or am i still in olden days, nowadays don need to give ang pow or a small gift to the helpers to show the couple’s appreciation to the helpers for takin up their precious time? The couple just say a THANK YOU to the helpers. tat’s it. : (

Guys and gals… any opinions??? do drop down something i would like to noe : )

HAve a great week!! : )

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i’m baCk!!

February 20th, 2008 by joceyong

It’s such a long long time that i didn’t write in my blog. Still as plump as before. Getting busier as the big day is coming soon. I was clearing up my things to shift it to his house. I’ve 1 full box of Andy Lau’s cds, vcds and cassette tapes. Was very relunctant to throw away some of his cassette but it’s mouldy : ( Took out my greeting cards i’ve received from primary school till now. Well.. suddenly feel sentimental to some birthday cards. Hmm.. esp Linda’s cards : ) I really don noe why i feel so touched by her cards. Reading back the cards made me feel that she’s very sincere in helping me and care for me. It’s difficult to find such a good friend now. Next, will be the thank you cards from the patients i’ve accumulated over the yrs in NUH. Can’t recall that i’ve ever received a roche bouquet from a patient’s relative before.Ha ha.. cant even remember the patient and family now. Only the bed no : ) most of the cards given to me said they like my sweet smile : ) hmm… ( am i really that sweet) There’s one patient wrote that she actually don like the stay in NUH but I have make her stay a pleasant one. My sweet smile brighten her day. in fact, the patients in her cubicle are lookin forward to see me everyday. I remembered there’s 1 dental patient i nurse him for a day bah. He came to look for me for two days just to hand me a xmas card personally : ) Frankly speaking, I have no idea y patients like me alot? I feel that I’m lucky bah not tat i’m very good.. : ) I remembered whenever i’m down, somehow the feedbacks from patient to NUH or thank you card from a patient will motivate me to move on. Ha ha at times, i told my frenz the good feedbacks and awards is my fertilizers. Saw a letter that was given to me years ago from a stranger. He/ She enclosed a cheque to me. The only info i have is the name from the cheque- Yeo Meng Han. He knows about my plight and would like to help my sisters and I. So for 3 yrs during my poly yrs. He will definitely send a cheque during xmas. I will like to say Thank you to his kindness. : ) Mrs Ong ( My Sec teacher) Thanks for helping my family giving support and financial help during all these years. Thanks for your prayers for us.. : ) Very Sleepy now.. tomolo will have a long day… I hope i will be slim on my big day : ( jia you!! Guess i can’t make it to LIly’s slim figure. Sigh…

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Flabby jo’s diary

January 9th, 2007 by joceyong

Been a while i didn’t update my blog. I know some of my friends is worried about me "disappearing" from my blog. Thanks.. I’m fine and still doing my exercise. Cutting down the intensity due to the "perfect" weather. Realised that i’m unable to detox liao. I will feel giddy and turn cold so i decided to eat again. Very weak hor…

Went for my salsa class. I realised that i’m a very slow learner. I fumbled when my footsteps are wrong. I hope i can improve as time pass. Went to practise with my salsa friends after lesson. Learnt a lot from the guys : ) thanks for their patience. Will have to practise on my ”combing" tactic. Enjoyed salsa a lot cos my friends are very supportive! 

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Flabby Jo’s diary

December 25th, 2006 by joceyong

Merry X’mas to my friends and relatives..

New resolutions…new aims….

I hope that all of u will have a good 2007 ahead!!!

Cheerios

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Flabby Jo’s diary

December 17th, 2006 by joceyong

It is a lazy sunday for me!!! Weather is not good too. Raining the whole day! Hee… sleep the whole day. Lazy me. Will Start my exercise tomolo. Aiming 8 km!! must do it!!!

Tomolo will have dinner with my friends. Sort of matchmaking. Hoping that it will blossom.

Went to have my hair cut. short but not real short i wanted to : (

Had a small unhappy discussion with Lily. I know she meant well. But it’s only 1 1/2 month. Wound is still very raw. Time will make me forget. Do i want to forget or to suffer again? I’m in the midst of waiting for my answer. I hope that he will not escape anymore or in his own words indecisive. Anyway i know my answer.

Will indulge myself more food again. Sigh stressed now BUT will exercise tomolo!!!

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Flabby Jo’s diary

December 15th, 2006 by joceyong

Oh my God!!!! I’ve just realised that my diary has been mis-spelled all along and nobody corrected me. hee… So pai seh!!

Walked back from workplace. Flu getting better… but still having the "sexy" voice. I accompanied my "closest" friend of mine to watch him eat. Hmm… really tempting but my will power is very strong. I will not relented to my cravings!!! Still got 2.6 kg to go. Must plan a day to eat XO fishslice beehoon. Ya… mayb can eat on monday?

Saw Serene’s parents when i’m walkin ah boy. They said i’ve slimmed down alot. The sales rep saw me this afternoon also commented I looked slim now BUT i don feel it. Still need to lose some more. I will make it!!!

Can’t go roller blading on sun!!! So disappointing. I’ve more important things to do!! To visit my closest relative as she broke her arm : (

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Flabby jo’s diary

December 13th, 2006 by joceyong

Read an article yesterday that stemcell transplant improved a six yr old boy’s quality of life in Portland. The boy has a incurable disease - Batten disease. A rare genetic disorder caused by defective genes which failed to make enzymes which is needed to dispose waste made by the brain cells so the waste piles up in the brain  and kills healthy cells until patients die before teens which will results in blindness and paralysis too.

Basically this child is waiting to die because he has lost his ability to walk and his speech two years ago. His parents decided to go for this experimental brain surgery - to transplant stemcells from the aborted foetuses into his head. Now, the child is getting better and can call "DAD" for the first time in two years.

Hmm… so i believe if my kid has thalassemia major, i can be able to help my kid. But first i need to save up from now. I heard from Piyao it’s quite ex to keep stemcell.

My sister giving birth today to a baby gal. Taking leave to help her out then realised that there’s so many things to do. Chicken need to be cooked in a different way. My third sister is anticipating me to cook my speciality- ginger with chicken. They love it!! I hope my little niece will be cute.

Went for my salsa class the other day. It’s getting more and more difficult. Classmates are very encouraging even though i knew that my footsteps are wrong. Hee…Thanks for their encouragement. Oh ya. I kept turning in wrong direction. so clumpsy me… never pay attention in class. Ha ha… i’ve a habit to turn too!!! My classmate will say i didn’t que u to turn. oops… hee….

My weight is 50.6kg… Getting closer to the target aim. Jocey!!! Jia You!!

Still sick!!! Irritating.. Don noe how come my blocked nose virus is so persistent. A week liao… Maybe i’ve birdflu. hee….

   

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December 11th, 2006 by joceyong

Attended my cousin’s wedding, Wenying (my sis) and husband can’t recognise my back ha ha… Wenhui (my sis) said my arms look thinner now. Relative said better looking now but paler. It’s normal that a thalassemia gal to look pale anyway.

Got a "scolding" from my sister when i’m thinking of going to jog. Ha ha… I was trying to "hurt" myself bah. Hee… BUT i REALLY have to start exercise and lose some more weight. Time is running out for me!! But will he appreciate? Sigh… don Know and don care. Take a step a time now. I really wish my wish will come true!! Bless me…

K i will need to sleep early.. Looking forward to my dancing lesson tomolo. Will discuss the plans of our class rollerblading together. Sounds interesting. My objective is to learn how to rollerblade asap : ) This is a closest friend of mine wish for me to start a new hobby. I will fulfil it.

 

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December 10th, 2006 by joceyong

Took mc today AGAIN!!! Sigh… but really not feeling well. My sister just sms me that she was disappointed that i didn’t join her to metro on sat where i’m really to drowsy to go. Sigh wat to do? i’m really down.

Been lookin through my friendster’s friends. It’s been so long that i’ve not really go and contact them. Even X’mas cards and New Year’s cards i’ve not been writing to my frenz. What’s going on with me? I think i’ve slowly change to be like him.

Been in a dilemma that should i be strong and move on which means to completely forget about him? Should i wait patiently till he realised hey… she’s the one for me? Either way is difficult for me to execute. I don’t know should i continue to be a silly gal. Now i’m in a junction of making decisions… a wrong decision i make can change my entire life. It seems to that i’m making a lot of wrong decisions already. I’m scared already.

I will find a way eventually…! Don worry i’ll be strong.

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Medical Info- cardiac arrest

December 9th, 2006 by joceyong

I thought of a weekly medical info to my friends… This week is cardiac arrest. Seems related to recent sudden deaths.

cardiac arrest, or circulatory arrest, is the abrupt cessation of normal circulation of the blood due to failure of the heart to contract effectively during systole.
The resulting lack of blood supply results in cell death from oxygen starvation. Cerebral hypoxia, or lack of oxygen supply to the brain, causes victims to lose consciousness and to stop breathing, which in turn causes the heart to stop. Brain damage is likely to occur after 3-4 minutes, except in cases of hypothermia. To improve survival and neurological recovery immediate response is paramount.
Cardiac arrest is a medical emergency that, in certain groups of patients, is potentially reversible if treated early enough. When cardiac arrest leads to death this is called sudden cardiac death (SCD).[1] The primary first-aid treatment for cardiac arrest is cardiopulmonary resuscitation (commonly known as CPR).

Congestive heart failure (CHF), also called congestive cardiac failure (CCF) or just heart failure, is a condition that can result from any structural or functional cardiac disorder that impairs the ability of the heart to fill with or pump a sufficient amount of blood throughout the body. It is not to be confused with "cessation of heartbeat", which is known as asystole, or with cardiac arrest, which is the cessation of normal cardiac function in the face of heart disease. Because not all patients have volume overload at the time of initial or subsequent evaluation, the term "heart failure" is preferred over the older term "congestive heart failure". Congestive heart failure is often undiagnosed due to a lack of a universally agreed definition and difficulties in diagnosis, particularly when the condition is considered "mild".

Acute myocardial infarction (AMI or MI), commonly known as a heart attack, is a serious, sudden heart condition usually characterized by varying degrees of chest pain or discomfort, weakness, sweating, nausea, vomiting, and arrhythmias, sometimes causing loss of consciousness. It occurs when the blood supply to a part of the heart is interrupted, causing death and scarring of the local heart tissue. Since the area affected may be large or small, the severity of heart attacks vary, but they are often a life-threatening medical emergency which demand both immediate attention and activation of the emergency medical services.
Diagnosis is by the combination of medical history, ECG findings and blood tests for cardiac enzymes. The most important treatment in myocardial infarction is restoring the blood flow to the heart, by thrombolysis (enzymatically dissolving the clot in the artery) and/or angioplasty (using a balloon to push the artery open). Close monitoring on a coronary care unit is mandatory to observe for various complications. There is emphasis on secondary prevention, the elimination of risk factors that could lead to further heart attacks.
The medical term myocardial infarction derives from myocardium (the heart muscle) and infarction (tissue death), in this case caused by an obstruction of blood flow. The phrase "heart attack" is occasionally used to refer to heart problems other than a myocardial infarction, such as unstable angina pectoris.

Source(s):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/cardiac_arr…
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/heart_failu…
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/heart_attac… 

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